The World Just Lost A Fairy God Mother

Do you believe in fairy tales? I am a pragmatic person.  I don't believe in happily ever after.  I don't believe in fairly tales until the day I met my Fairy God Mother.  Everybody knows I call her FGM.

Her name was Cindy.  

She was an avid and faithful reader of my blog.  One time, she approached me in Powerplant mall to say "I am your follower." I said "Hello", smiled at her and that was it.  Fast forward to several months, I discovered we were neighbors here in the village.  I met her again for a meeting in Vinnie's house but I just smiled shyly and said hello, as usual.

We then started saying "Hi!" frequently whenever we would bump into each other in Powerplant mall.  I invited Cindy and Tita Mench, another neighbor, to have lunch in my house.  

That started our wonderful friendship.

We would always chat online and learn more about each other.  One time I was whining in FB that I wanted to eat bacon but it was already midnight I could not go out and buy in the supermarket.  A few minutes after posting, my doorbell rang and Lo and Behold!, Cindy was there bearing gifts, a pack of bacon, sausage, juice and chips! Since then, I started calling her Fairy God Mother.  She indulged my cravings and sometimes after doing her grocery shopping in Unimart or S&R she would knock on my door and give me my pasalubongs.  

Always food.

Food was something we had in common, our love for it.  She was my eating partner in crime.  We would set dates and eat whatever we had in mind.  

Most of the time it was just the two of us but sometimes we would enjoy food with our fellow Perlies.  That is the name of our group.  We all live in the same village.  Occassionally, Mona would join us also when she is in Makati.

We started traveling together.  The first time was in Cebu.  Mona and I tagged along for the day while FGM and her friend, Cherry, spent several days in Cebu.

Next was in Iloilo with Vinnie and Mona.

FGM and I were room mates. Hihihi let's just say after a night with me, she never ever wanted to be my room mate again. Ever.  I offered to get a room of my own. I was really tired because I  just got back from Bangkok and I knew I was going to snore loudly.  She was not able to sleep at all! So I got up at 5 am and started wandering around the city and ended up at the public market to eat batchoy. The next night Mona was my room mate and FGM got her own.

Our 3rd trip was in Bangkok with Vinnie.  

Lesson learned, she got her own room but we opened the connecting door between the two rooms.

Our last trip was in Vietnam with Vinnie and Ninong, FGM's husband.

When you travel with friends the bond gets stronger and you get to know them on a more personal level.

I am really going to miss FGM.  When she was still living in the village, we had a 5 o'clock date.  She would pick me up then go to Powerplant mall for a couple of hours then go home in time for dinner.  Sometimes, we would just drive around the village and chat for hours on end.  When I am hungry I would call and ask her, "What's your food and can I eat there?"

June 3 was a sad day for me and for the "world", as well.  FGM was generous in heart and spirit.  She loved giving joy to people she like and love.  Low key is the term I would describe her generosity.  She helped so many people but never announced it to the world.  

She is gone too soon, she could have helped more people but God said,  "It is enough already.  You have done more than I could ask for."

My friends have been calling and texting to ask if I am alright.  I said I am ok but I am just so sad.  I still can't believe FGM is not here anymore.  My only consolation is knowing that she was so happy to be back in Powerplant mall before she took her last breath in her happy place.

She is survived by her husband Richard a.k.a Ninong to me and my friends, older brother Billy and the daughter of her heart, Cha Cha. (Got the photos from FGM.)

Her last words to me yesterday while chatting online was, "Eat well!"

FGM, my fairy god mother, made me believe in fairy tales again while she was still here on Earth.  

For that, I would forever be grateful to her.